Coach D3

1. Invalidation is 1 of the 4 traits that: *

Are found in all failed relationships Are strong predictors of divorce Are often learned in the home of origin Tend to neutralize all the good in any relationship

3.The healthy replacement behavior for invalidation is: *

Agreeing with everything Ignoring, but saying: "Yes, dear." Active, empathetic LISTENING

4. Invalidation generally occurs whenever you fail to first listen carefully and then empathize with them. *

True False

5. The "Behavioral Change Stairway Model" used by the FBI in crisis negotiations includes: *

6. Most relationships are in many ways like a hostage situation with "life and death" results depending on how we deal with them. *

True False

7. Active listening skills include: *

9. Most of us do NOT necessarily want people to agree with us. We basically just want to be understood. *

True False

10. A big part of conveying genuine understanding is good, solid, active, empathetic listening. *

True False

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