Coach D5

1. Taking some "personal time" is a good thing. Everyone needs a little bit of personal time. *

True False

2. Taking too much "personal time," in the form of withdrawal, is problematic when it becomes a pattern, especially if that pattern is caused by unresolved conflict in the relationship. *

True False

3. Humans are social creatures wired for relationships, created by a relational God made in His image. *

True False

6. Loneliness is associated with: *

7. Over the past 30 years, loneliness has: *

Decreased 30% Stayed essentially the same Increased 40%

8. What age group experiences the most loneliness? *

18-34 year olds 35-49 year olds 50-69 year olds 70+ year olds

9. Those who are more connected via social media tend to be less connected in actual personal reltionships. *

True False

10. Most people are good at friend making, but have more difficulty in friend keeping. *

True False

11. The reason that we have difficulty keeping friends is because we don't have good conflict-resolution (relationship-repair) skills. *

True False

12. The healthy replacement behavior for withdrawal is: *

Stonewalling Divorce Repair

13. Which of the following are "Love Languages?" *

14. Creating an environment through kindness, generosity, and unselfish love, so that the other person is receptive to the repair attempt, determines its success. *

True False

15. Another important skill in conflict resolution is saying: *

"I'm right!" "I don't care." "I'm sorry."

16. Which of the following are key points in conflict resolution? *

Simply say, "I'm sorry." Take responsibility for what you did to cause the problem Don't focus on the other person's responsibility Focus on your own responsibility and do things differently Give the other person space to take responsibility for what they did and to do things differently on their terms Always accept a genuine apology

17. Developing effective conflict-resolution (relationship-repair) skills will enable you to move your relationship into the deeper layers of intimacy, rather than withdrawing from it completely. *

True False

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